I think the answer is yes and no. Is going to a strip bar adultery? Is looking at online porn? Is porn watching adultery? I think, IMHO, that if it interferes with the dynamic of the relationship and causes problems, it is adultery. When it becomes an addiction it is. I don't condone it, but like C2 says, men are visual and some like to look.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......