You got me thinking. Christians believe that lust of the heart = adultery. Beyond that, a man who looks at a centerfold or webcam is usually masturbating? This is a physical connection. Also, salivating over a pic is a physiological reaction. The wife is forsaken. This can drive a couple apart.
I know women who feel inadequate due to the image portrayed in the media. I am happy you have kicked the habit.
Why go from pic to pic, or stripper to stripper? Protect your marriage. You chose your wife for a lifetime.