I understand your wanting to spend time alone with your W. She shouldn't have cancelled with you if you had plans together. I'm just saying that I know how captivating a new baby can be. I have grandkids myself. I would also gladly raise a ton more kids, so perhaps I'm unusual in that respect.
Well, maybe OW will eventually find somebody else to eat with, so you can go back to eating with your usual group. It would seem that she was trying to make you jealous. Perhaps she didn't like that she was dropped. You just need to ignore the whole business. Otherwise, I think you might get sucked in again when things aren't going so well at home. Just my opinion...
