Amy, there comes a time when each of us has to put aside all that has consumed us during our struggles with our situations. You've worked hard for a very long time and in that time have been a wonderful inspiration and voice of reason to so many people. To this many of us a forever grateful.
So now it's time you must truly set aside all that has consumed you, let it all go and trust in the Lord and his plan. Turn all of your worries, concerns and fears over to Him. Leave them with Him, make a true leap of faith and know he will take care of you.
As for being completely done, well only you know for sure if it's time to be completely done and to stop standing. But it definitely is time to let the old marriage go, it is dead and gone. For a new relationship and marriage to begin the old one must be done and gone. Let it go and look forward to the new and wonderful things that will be coming your way.
May the peace of the Lord be with you.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
