Madonna/Whore Complex - Part 6

[Heywyre]

Ok, so here is an update (of sorts) as I haven't posted in a while

H and I haven't gone to the ST for 2 weeks now (he's on holidays) and won't be going until the 23rd. I feel like a fish out of water, thrashing around and not getting anywhere. It is a perfect opportunity for H to conveniently "forget" about the effort he has to put into this (i.e. the sensate focusing ST wanted us to do at least twice in the first week). I remind him and it goes no where. Now, in all due fairness, it has been EXTREMELY hot the last 10 days and we don't have air conditioning in our house so the thought of someone touching either of us is not exactly a turn-on. However, all the more reason to have multiple showers together to cool down right? - NOT!!

Well the hot spell has finally broken this weekend and tonight shouldn't be more than about 75-80F (as opposed to 100+). With the ceiling fans going, there shouldn't be any excuse. I suggested it this morning and he said we would do it later tonight "when it got cooler"

On another note, we were sitting having breakfast this morning and I brought up some conversation about OW and our R. He told me the OW had called him twice, but he told me about it. First of all, he didn't really have much choice but to tell me because he is giving me his cell bills every month BUT at least he told me BEFORE I saw the bill and her number on there. He said the first time she left a voicemail message, saying she'd like to talk to him. Then she phoned again (the same day) and he said he answered and just said "don't call me anymore" and hung up before she could respond. I guess the time on the cell bill will confirm how long he actually talked to her - that one shouldn't have been more than a minute charge. He then told me if she continues to call he will just change his cell number.

I thanked him for telling me and he said "I wasn't going to tell you until after your visit with your brother tomorrow but since we were talking about it anyway ...

I wish he would have told me the day it happened but at least he told me BEFORE I saw it on the cell bill, that's a start.