Grace
Grace, that is fantastic! 60 pounds, wow! You are so awesome.

TiredHeart
TiredHeart, I am missmyfriend and it is an honor to meet you. You are extremely impressive. I think you did the right thing trying to get your bearings before you did anything. It would be easy to throw yourself into self destructive behaviors or bad relationships. And you have stuck with it this whole time! You demonstrate a lot of courage and patience as Was2sad is recommending that you maintain.

He is contacting you for a reason and wanting to see you for a reason. What it is will be hard to understand but it is positive no matter how you look at it. It could be for the same selfish reasons he left but it happens to be something about you that he doesnt want to let go of. He may eventually put you first again in his life. Keep us posted. I am excited about the possibilities.

MMF


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God