Congratulations on getting your marriage back on track as much as you have. You have done a lot. It sounds like you and your wife have been going through the disillusionmnet stage of marriage, maybe even into the misery stage. This is very hard to break out of. My husband and I were caught in feelings of unappreciativeness and became very resentful of each other. We thought our only choices were to live in an unsatisfying marriage forever or get divorced. Then a friend recommended Retrouvaille. In January we attended a Retrouvaille weekend, and it changed our lives. Our marriage is restored to the way it was before children. No miracle here, we did it ourselves. They just taught us the tools.
