ok, so I had to correct some spelling, sheesh. Well, I have dodged ow so far today. After this week I think thats it and she goes back to her normal building. Time will tell on who the agressor is. She's bound to pick another.
So yes, I need to be with W more on an alone basis, but unless she can control me, does she reward me with any affection. If I refuse or hesitate to do things SHE wants from HER list, as it were, I get a ration of sh*t. Well, like Snods has said, to make a list of her things and a list of my things. I do MY list usually alone, and her list usually alone but sometimes with her help. To her, my list is insignificant. The 'steps' project was quite significant in changing our lives even though she did nothing to help except hold one board once. If will do this list thing for another reason and that is fro a matter of record when she says I don't do anything around the house, well, I'll have my proof. Bad idea?
