At 2:30am I woke up because he was opening the bedroom door. He was sillouetted there and then quitely entered and for a split second, it was like this wasn't happening. Then I remembered.
He went into the bathroom to brush his teeth, then came and started taking the phone out of the wall (jack is behind bed headboard). Naturally I ask "why ya doin that?" and he says "I haven't gotten an alarm clock yet and I have to get up early." I find out how early and offer to wake him up.I really don't want to not have the phone in the bedroom. Then he asks how the movie was and I say "most excellent! I plan to get it when it comes out on video" and he (who has been walking around in his underwear) lays down sideways on the bed with his head propped up and says ""Most excellent"" How so?" So I proceed to explain exactly what was so great, how visually stunning it was and he was nodding and smiling and laughing when I said something funny. I'm done talking and he leans over and kisses my forhead and then takes my hand and kisses it. Then he gets up, makes another kissy noise, reconfirms that I don't mind waking him up and starts to leave. Then as he is opening the door to go, he says "Wow, it's nice and cool in here. I'm jealous." I say "yeah, well, that's what ya get bubba" and he kinda laughs and is gone. He had obviously been drinking so I think it brought down some of his walls. I know he is very concerned that he doesn't lead me on. Hopefully, that interaction cancels out me being a bozo and inviting him to go with me.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing