The pressure for a new job is all mine!!! I have been unhappy with my job for many years. It also has lousy pay and lousy benefits. The hours are flexible, though, and I enjoy many of my co-workers which has kept me there. I had planned to quit at the end of the school year, enjoy the summer (ON MY NEW BOAT!), and take my time finding a new job. D just changed my time table!
H is not making me move, but I just can't afford the house we are currently in. We can stay here as long as we need to. D16 and I both thought a new house in a new area would give us both a new lease on life. (She has been unhappy with school, but I know changing schools is not necessarily going to help that!). Actually now that D16 has a new boyfriend she is not as eager to move. However, the new boyfriend makes me feel we should move out of this school district!
H's job involves travel and is away from home 4-5 days a week; never on a consistent schedule. That makes him unavailable to D16 (even if he wanted to be there).
Thanks for your thoughts and prayers. Keep them coming!