Hey Lin,
Boy, 11 teenagers huh..... I'm in awe of you!!!! I sort of have a picture in my head of you (and I don't even know what you look like \:\) ..) running after all these boys LOL!
Must be fun though and even if you feel exhausted I can imagine feeling energised aswell.

Thanks for your reply and your advice!!! Dh was here again this week and told me he loved me very much but is incapable of any relationship. He will move in the downstairs appartment but made it very clear it is not to work on our marriage... I will do as you suggest. Although it will be pretty tough to do so.

I too feel that if we were to be divorced we will be together again. We were married in church and I feel that that spiritual marriage can never be dissolved.

Well, have fun running Lin!!! ;\)
hug, B