Matilda, I can certainly understand your concerns about leaving you D16 alone 3 evenings per week. I have been told that the only safe time to leave kids home alone is between age 10 and 14. After that they need as much supervision as when they were little.
Is there a chance your H would step up and be there for her on those evenings?
I hate to see you feeling forced to make so many big decisions right now. Having to find a new job and a new place to live and a new school for D16. It just does not seem fair to have to make decisions like that right now. What a silly I am, as if any of this is in any way FAIR or makes any sense!!!!
I just want you to know that I am thinking about you and praying for you.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011