snoderly has said it all... mlc or not...you already are aware of the fact that what you are doing re ow is not working for your m...and sheesh man trying to blame the ow...because she persued you...well then just about every wife in america should be allowed to have an affair and blame it on the man persuing her...
you need to focus on yourself..your role in the break down of the m
your reactions instead of actions...
time to take resposibilty for yourself and not blame others...
