You said I could delay the D in other ways...other than the two month waiting period once it's filed, what else do you suggest? I know the largest part of her decision is that she truly believes we can't stop arguing and that she is somehow a failure and will never be good for me. She told me she is resigning herself to a life of loneliness, meaning she doesn't want to move on, but just feels she should. Should I tell her of D Busting or just keep quiet until she says she wants to work things out?