being 34, i have no idea what the real MLC is all about. i have experienced what I like to call a TLC - third-life-crisis...
and it's a thing where I look forward and ask myself "do I really want to be doing this 10 years from now? 20 years? OMG - i'm edging up closer and closer to the top of hill... better get my life in order for the slipperly slide down the other side, you know?
I don't NOT want to be in a friendshipless relationship I DO want to be a "perfect" wife and mother. I DO want to experience real-live JOY with my H. I don't want to be lonely.
I know, I know ~ my goals at this point are broad and vague, but... they keep my chin pointed in the right direction... and they help me everytime my fingers start itching to email ole "you-know-who". Do you have goals like this JohnnyU?