Delia is right. You may push her away if you do anything in panic mode. Your urgency right now sounds justified but just think how it is easy to mistrust someone who is pleading or tantruming. You can delay the D in other ways. Each hour that passes may be difficult but think of this day, this week, this month as a small piece of investment int he rest of your life. We have all made mistakes and had some successes so read about them and use them as your new resource.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
