I have done that, too. My H acts totally fine if I am there or not. He has no interest in me at all. I am just a conduit for him to be with the kids. I REALLY need to make myself unavailable but it is such a hard habit to break. I want to be part of that regular family time. AAArrgh. I actually invited him along with my friends to a movie I know he really wanted to see. How stupid. He looked at me and said, "No thanks." Like that was such a stupid idea. The worst part is that one of my friends was bringing a dude that looks like David Bechkam.

Last edited by mkultra; 07/14/07 03:57 AM.

Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
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