Hey built4speed, I also have heard all the crap about how much the D is costing the W, like I care, she's the one who put all this in motion, she filed it, so if it is putting her in a bind, it's not my problem, I didn't tell her to file it, move in the OM, who probably eats like a horse, (I saw him, he must weigh 300+ lbs) or told her to get pregnant, (she keeps telling me it's not mine, but yet is constantly wanting to talk about it and throw it up in my face) it's not my problem she is paying her own medical bills, and doing everything by herself, the OM, is just spending his money on whatever he wants, like get this, when the moron found out she was pregnant, he went out an bought an expensive SUV, and is making payments on it, what an idiot. According to the kids, He hasn't bought a thing for the baby, and here she is either 5 or 7 months along (hasn't told me how far she is, but she looks pretty big to me) Oh well, it just tells you that a person who makes one stupid mistake, like having an affair, and or filing for D, can just domino into a bunch of stupid mistakes that they will have to deal with for the rest of their lives.