For some reason, I have this feeling my W will be on this site in the future trying to get ideas on how to save us. I know I made mistakes, but she has lost the idea of what she has in me. I feel that when I have really detached myself from her, it's over. And I am not at that point yet, I could be getting there. She went out with her GF after work tonight. She showered, shaved, and put on new clothes. She did tell me today that she is going to see other people. I didn't get as upset as I thought I would. It hurt a little, but I didn't show it. If that's what she plans to do, then so be it. i have to work on my issues and seeing someone else will not help me with those.