well, I've posted heavily on my mlc side of things (which is no excuse for my behaviour) and one can find more on my dilema there.

Currently, as an update, this ow seems to be running a little scared after I sent her a 'friendsip' card on V day and of ox of like 3 little chocolates which she thanked me for.

She followed that up by inviting me to the table for lunch with some others. Seems innocent enough. She sort of ignored me the rest of the day but thats fine. Thats is where it should be. Sure, I didnt have to give her anything for Vday. (yes I took care of my W much better thanks)

Well, I had a chance later in the day to run in to her in my office area and I was quick to go about my business and get away from her. She may have seemed uncomfortable and wanting to do her work and I did had things to do hence why they pay me. I blew off a big lunch event with her dyas prior and she seemed upset then and has had stomach trouble for two days since. I dont know if its related but that is why I sent the card and a very very small token of my friendship. Her and I were quite an item last summer and fall as far as 'buddies' is concerned so I feel a close friendsip occurred.

Charcoal, messsages dont seem to be posisble here. We can stay on this forum I'm fine staying here.