Just my opinion but I guess it depends on if you want to save the marriage or not. I know that if my H cheats while we are apart I will file the papers myself. It definitely will push us away from my goal. I confess to not being the most passionate person while we were married but it has been a month and I think at this point I could probably put a hurtin on him! Classy, I know. I'm missing it too.
M:29 H:30 Married: 8 years (together 10) 6/14/07- Seperated
For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind. 2 Timothy 1:7