So I have high expectations of myself now, from parenting, to handling my W better as a friend only, to becoming a business owner.....and just having great relationships....but my daughter is at the center of it all. She will need me to be there for her, and a good provider and mentor.
I love this for you. The more you can take the pressure off your R and focus on yourself, the happier and more in-control you will be. Good luck!
