Walkin' Towards The Blessing!

[FaithfulH]

To all my dear board friends (AmyC, 4_Kids, CinderellaMan, I_Wanna_Make_It_Work, FaithIsBelieving, Frank_D, 25yearsmlc, steelersfan, Poohbear, Lissett, Jeanette1120, MrsH, Oldtimer ....and the list goes on)

I just wanted to post a brief update. After 6 Weeks, our marriage restoration continues on warp-speed! In that time, we've had 2 trips to NYC...2 trips to Old Saybrook, CT...many, many dinners out....you get the idea....lots of time alone. It has been fantastic! We are now getting to a point where we are working on a balance of "alone" time...and "together" time. We both realized during our separation...that this is a healthy part of ensuring our individuality doesn't get lost in our "coupleness". We both enjoy immensely being together...but, we also have our own unique individual interests...and I no longer feel threatened when my W says, "I think I want to spend some time doing X tonight...are you OK with that?".

Wow, I am amazed by the depth of the love I feel for my W!...and she is reflecting that same deep love back at me! I never thought I would say this but I believe the last 18 months of horrendous pain...was the best thing that has ever happened to us! I pray daily for each of you that your relationships are fully and completely restored...and many of them are...or are well on the way!

I will continue to stop in occasionally to keep up on your sitches!

Have a great weekend all!