GEL: I know it was wrong. In my defense, it only has happened 2 times -- the IM'ing, so it's not "full blown." I am going to stop it now.

Sara: I don't think I'm going to say anything to H. OM is married too. I'm going to stop it before it escalates and just leave it at that.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10