Thanks, guys, for the 2 x 4 \:\) I know what's right, I know what's happening and I am going to nip it in the bud immediately. It is very hard though, being lonely, vulnerable w/o H here, etc., but I'm glad I know better. Like I said, I know how it feels to be on the receiving end of a cheating spouse, not going to do it to my H or OM's W.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10