I'm so glad you are posting as well. You and I began this at the same time. My H moved out at the same time as yours did. Much has happened to me since then. I have to agree with you---they do pop out of the tunnel but it takes a veeeeeeerrrrrrrrryyyyyyyyyy long time. I know that can be discouraging to the new folks here, but it's the truth. Please keep on posting and updating. You are well into this. He may be starting to come out of it. How have YOU taken care of yourself all this time?
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
