I've told him that I would never cheat on H -- I've been on the "other side" of that too many times. I don't think I'm "encouraging" at all.
You are conversing with someone that is actively pursuing you. How is that not encouraging? What would you call it if your husband were behaving in this manner?
I can tell you for sure that the "OM" is encouraged by your continued banter.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
