It has become unimportant to me. I'm practically a born-again virgin!
Here's the thing, my wife never got what she needed out of me, which was emotional validation. So, she never got much out of sex. SO, I'm focusing on the emotional stuff, the sex can come when she is good an ready, when we get back together. It's important to me, but I've got to be there for her first, so it'll be a while, and that is OK.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...