OK, so to answer your abstinence question--my advice is to exercise. Aerobic housecleaning if nothing else. Exercise will damp down those feelings, and have the added benefit of making you look your best when H comes around. Take up rollerblading or something.
I do work out religiously, so that is something. sigh. not enough, but something. lol.
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