If you 2 still love each other, things will work out.
I keep telling myself that but it gets harder as I watch him become more attached to this woman. I have noticed that he seems aggitated fairly often, almost as if the OW gives him a hard time sometimes. Perhaps he is just struggling with his own demons (though it makes me happy attributing his unhappiness to her).
I focus everyday on being happy around him, letting him believe that I'm doing okay, which honestly drives him nuts. It's almost like he wants me to be falling apart. I will keep DBing for now and also need to implement the GAL thing! We don't have many friends/family in the area, which makes GAL a bit difficult, but I know that's an important step of the process. This site has been a lifesaver for me, thanks so much for your input!