Continue to DB if you want to save your M. I would say, from what you have written, your M is still salvagable, if that's what you want. I would never give up, but you have to continue to DB your rear-end off. It's all about patience. If you 2 still love each other, things will work out. Just make sure you are being good to yourself as well right now. Take care of your little boys (I have 3 little boys) and show your H a woman and wife he would not ever want to lose or leave. Read & re-read the DB book!
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
