I have been debating whether or not to post this information but I feel like I am going crazy so here goes...
Long story short: my H moved out in February while I was pregnant because he thought we were having too many problems in the relationship and needed space. He began an EA which led to a PA through the pregnancy and birth of my son. He announced on Father's Day that we should move on and that he is tired of lying and wants to pursue a relationship with this woman.
I really just don't know what to do. Do I accept this as my fate and move on or keep fighting to save what seems to be a dead marriage? I love my husband and I know that he loves me. He says he is just confused and doesn't deserve me, that I'm too good for him. I have posted on the MLC site in the past b/c I have been told that's what this is. H has lost a great deal of weight and acts practically unrecognizable now. Please share your thoughts as to when someone should stop DBing... H says that we can never come back from this place, when I ask if we can save the marriage. We have been to see a C but clearly it hasn't helped, considering his latest bomb.
He's now looking at real estate (with OW, also married with kids) and investigating putting our house on the market. Please help!
