I have started seeing a therapist. After each session, my wife wants to know what we talked about, so I tell her. So far we are trying to get to the root of why I felt I had no other choice but to lie. All my wife cares about is that I cheated...bottom line. The more her and I tal abou it, the angrier she gets. Then she starts making assumtions and putting words in my mouth. Needless to say the conversations go nowhere. I have suggested she talk to the thearapist too, but she refuses. She says I am the one with the problem, not her. I disagree though, She DOES have a problem, one that I caused. Will her and I ever be able talk about this, or does a third party have to mediate? All she talks about now is divorce, without giving theapy a chance.
