Sure CeMar can grow into a better person, but that still will not make him happy nor assure success with his marriage.
If he grows into a better person, he can't help but end up happier regardless of whether it produces success in his marriage.
Originally Posted By: Cobra
Otherwise the spouse can hold the relationship hostage, which seems to be what has been going on, based on CeMar's latest info about his wife.
She can hold the relationship hostage, but after his growth, she won't be able to hold him or his happiness hostage. He may or may not remain with her for the kids' sake, but he won't need her or any woman to be happy.
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.