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Hang in there. It takes time to start feeling better.Do nice things for yourself..Read all you can.. Jim and Sally conways books on MLC are really good..Most libraries can order them through inter library loan..The more I understand that I didnt cause it mlc and I cant change it, it helps me let go to take care of myself and my kids..My changes are consistant with H..He enjoys being with me and talking ..I enjoy our time together which is very limited,but needs to be limited now as I have a lot to do on me...Find women to talk to ..i was surprized to meet a few in my area who suceesfully went thru MLC and H are back and I watched my neighbor go thru it last year..He is still home and he seems normal again..Litlle did I know i would be next!!
Good luck
R


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
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