how do you cope with abstinence? we separated a month ago and I miss sex, I miss just physical touch, so much I want to scream. At the same time, I know we can't be with each other right now...btdt, bought the t-shirt, regret it. And I don't want to have a fling with someone else. but still, its really hard. Yes, there are, um, ways, to take the edge of, but its not really the same.

any advice?


M-41
H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher