H is coming by today to get the kids. what do I do when he asks how I am? I know he will, he always does. I've started just saying, "fine" and trying to sound upbeat, even when I'm a heartbroken mess. is that right?
he keeps telling me how he is a mess and such. Is it okay that I've stopped asking? should I continue to ask? I don't really know how to respond to him when he says he's a mess, or not okay. Its frustrating to me because its his own doing...he had/is having the affair. he is choosing not to work on the marriage. he is choosing to continue to lie to me. He is choosing to blame me for everything and take no responsibility himself. So if he's not okay, look in the mirror buddy.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
