I think you are wise to take S16's feelings very seriously. I really think that there's often a tendency to focus on younger children in these sitchs; and being a teenager these days is hard enough as it is already.
Still -- I got what you meant from your earlier post, but it made me chuckle to think of the literal interpretation of your initial words!
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P.S. And a big woo-woo on your new bod and new duds!! Great for the PMA!