By the way, Mojo perfectly summed up how I know I feel about men. So being a nice guy if it is done altruistically is a good thing!!
Thank you. I thought of another way to put it. You can just change the expression "There's nothing so pure as a kindness from an Atheist." to "There's nothing so pure as a romantic gesture from an experienced 'player'"
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
