nicola....I hear the same. The other day, I was sitting across from my W at dinner, and, for the first time, she looked 'older' and in somes ways, she seemed to be a stranger. I guess that is what happens when two people don't discuss their hopes and dreams together anymore. Sad.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;