Rabbit made a brilliant point. Your wife wants you to "unseat" yourself.
She will try to drive you out, by not caring how nastily she treats you.
She wants you to walk out so she can readily replace you with OM.
Don't leave. That's one way of regaining your power.
Errr...why are YOU in the spare room? She's planning on sleeping with another man, flaunting it in front of you and YOU are sleeping in the guest room? WTF?
Take back your power slowly. Don't move out.
Start making a plan for having fun in your own life. Start stretching yourself.
