Oh, I understand exactly where you are coming from, Aud. After two years since my H and I started reconciling, I still occasionally ask him if he is still in contact with OW (deep down, I really do wonder). He says he's not, so we'll see.

At this point, I feel I am going to give my H space, and the chance to sort out his job sitch, and the stress all that comes from. I think if he is still in contact with OW, that knowledge will come to me somehow, like it did the first time (by pure chance ... think HF had a hand, or my guardian angels).

I think the best thing, still, is to pray for your M, pray for your H, pray for clarity and truth and patience and love. What more can we truly do?


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim