W got back last night (dropped off by girlfriend, seems OM is scared sh-tl-ss of crossing paths and dropped her off at GF's).
As soon as she got in, she brought up that she got a job offer in Melbourne (thats where she went with OM, she actually admitted she was in Melb and not Canberra, big first for her not to lie).
Tongue in cheek, I told her "Gee, DD will sure miss you."
Then she went off like Musolini on the balcony, about never leaving DD and not accepting the offer etc etc WTF, why bring it up.
I told her that I was going to Perth for a couple of weeks, and re-iterated "boundaries", and the line of work I am in, it would be easy to find out if OM had visited our home or driven my car etc.
She re-assured me that it would not happen, she understands and thanks me for handling things the way I have. Funny thing is, the whole time she could not stop looking me up and down, the same way you would a prospective mate. It was pretty obvious.
I told her that I would make things as easy as possible for her (divorce) as long as we kept it civil etc, she agreed.
Then whilst I was on the phone to a friend, she came in and thanked me for looking after DD and for doing stuff around the house, so she had nothing to worry about when she got home. This was probably the most sincere thank you she has given me in over 12 months.
So either she is well and truly happy with OM after thier trip and is looking forward to her life with him, or maybe the trip was not as great as she thought.
I am out to dinner with friends tonight and again tomorrow night. I will continue doing what I have been doing in regards to GALing as I think I have finally reached a peace and acceptance of my sitch, and as long as she sticks to her word in regards to our agreement, I cant see myself worrying any more about her, OM or the future.
There will be a "positive" at the end, regardless of whether we remain with our S's or move on.
