Do I buy a house? What about sex?

[jmegator]

I am such a newbie at this I probably have no major words of wisdom but this is what I know. I know that there is always hope and that people can change. It sounds like your H is really going through something right now. My counselor at church told me she got the feeling that the enemy was dragging my H out of our marriage by the heels. So I try not to take too much personally and remember that the enemy is really fighting hard to break our marriage up so if it is going to be saved I have to be stronger and fight harder. If I don't than who will? Not sure about your religious beliefs so this may not make sense for you. The only peace and comfort I get is from God and people He puts in my life to help me along the way. Without that I think I'd be a freaking basket case pretty much all the time!!!