Husband,

Wanted to find out what you thought of the book "Stop Your Divorce". I had a chance to use the "Agree w/ everything " technique and it worked great! I called my W after I learned she had a little car accident(I'm an Allstate Agent) to discuss the accident. She was very nice and we even talked about us. I told her I am happy w/ things as they are and ready to move on. I did tell her that I still think she is attractive(what the OM tells her) and listened to her complain about work(which I never used to).

She still seems committed to D, and mentioned that she wld serve me next week. Don't know if she's serious or not. She said she liked talking on the phone, just not in person w/ me. She mentioned we always end up arguing at the end of a call so while on a happy note I told her" Well, since were on a happy note I'll say goodbye now, Goodbye" and She said goodbye too.

This was the first nice talk we've had in about 8months! the first time she's treated me like a human being in 3 months! With all my GAL and Agree w/ everything I began to have those old feelings for her and broke down. I still have a little hope(5%) that we can fix this. Tomorrow I have a "Date" w/ a female client that is also just Divorced. I hope nothing happens, but it will be nice to feel appreciated if only for a few hours.

Wish me luck as I attend "Happy Hour" for the first time in months w/ a woman.


ME: 39 ring on
wife:38 ring off WAW/MLC
son:17,11
dtr:9
mar:17yr
Bomb4-27-07. EA/PA 2/07 with 22yr old.
DBing 5-19-07
My story on the link below.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1069470&page=0#Post1069470