It sounds like he will miss you either way. There is still a lot of good stuff going on between you. My other book does warn about not spending enough time alone. The doctor states that we spend more time with other couples than we do alone. We save our best stories and jokes and outfits and dinners for other couples instead of each other. I had no idea until it was too late! Now, I tell all couples I know about Dr. Weiner and Dr. Kreidman and their books. Most of our couple friends look a lot worse than my H and me, too. Even out therapist said she usually does not see couples who are so amicable like us. Yeah, but they are still together and we are not, so what is the deal with ten years?
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."