It's been a wierd sitch with H and church...I've felt very strongly that there is a reason for the delay, and like everything else in this entire experience, I realize it's not MY timeline. I much prefer it all to be H's choice, not something he does because he feels forced.

I don't really pester him much on the OW check (maybe once a week)...and I will stop. Just don't want to be an ostrich with my head in the sand, you know?


Me-36
H-36
3 young children
Married-14y