Psalms makes a lot of sense now, doesn't it? Have you read The Proper Care and Feeding of Your Wife by Dr. Laura? I read The Proper Care and Feeding of your Husband and it makes so much sense. Just wish I would have read it sooner. My H has filed for D so it seems like I'm at the end of my rope right now, but everyone on here takes care of me. I don't know what I would do without them. Another book I wish I had the nerve to follow in sitch early on was Love Must Be Tough by James Dobson. It talks about confronting them in a loving way. I was afraid to do it, I was afraid I would push him away. Well, I did everything wrong, the begging, pleading, doormat and I did lose him. But you know what I don't like the person he is right now so until he is. I can't change him so I have to work on myself.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon