Yes, with your H, it would be hard not to project his thoughts about others onto your own sitch. But from what he said about his dad, that sounded much more positive.
It is very sad how many people in your family are going thru M struggles. Your dad is very very lucky to have such a patient W. She could be so far gone, but she is not.
About your SIL: your H is only doing what he thinks will heal her now. That's why it's so important to not be influenced by friends and family. They want us to feel better now, and they are not looking to restore our M.
On your, moving him out of your room....If you had a choice... for him to move out of the room or you to. Well, I think he should go. I don't think that is controlling, depending how you said it probably. I don't know. I don't think it's fair to you to have to leave. He's the one who's not repecting you right now.
okay, I better go...it's past my bedtime take care Nikki!!!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
take care Nikki!!!
