I like what you said "I carry myself in a manner that would beg the question,"Why in the hell is he leaving her?" I so don't understand the whole quote/ quick quote thing yet!! Anyway H's family really feels that way and all of our friends and family are on "our" side (staying together) which he perceives as they are on "my" side which makes him very resentful.
We were like the golden couple in our group of friends. Never argue, always having a good time, always having everyone over to our house, so no one really understands what is going on and everyone was pretty stunned to hear about it. Looking back now of course I realize we spent too much time with friends and not enough time just us working on the marraige. I always hated that phrase "working on a marraige" b/c/ I never knew what the hell anybody meant when they said that. I feel like I could write a book about it at this point.
M:29 H:30 Married: 8 years (together 10) 6/14/07- Seperated
For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind. 2 Timothy 1:7
